如何去爱你的爱人

真正的爱，是接受，不是忍受；是支持，不是支配；是慰问，不是质问。

　　真正的爱，要道谢也要道歉；要体贴，也要体谅；要认错，也好改错。

　　真正的爱，不是彼此凝视，而是共同沿着同一方向望去。

　　也许，爱，不是寻找一个完美的人；而是，要学会用完美的眼光，欣赏一个不完美的人。

　　牵了手，就不要，随便说分手。

　　或许，爱就是心甘情愿的付出，甘苦与共的分享。

　　不要等到失去了才知道可贵；不要等到伤害了才来乞求原谅；有些东西失去了永远不会再回来。

　　如果一个人向你表白，无论如何请珍惜他/她对你的爱，即使只能做普通朋友；或许一个人纯真的表白不会再有第二次。

　　因为善良，所以可爱；因为可爱，所以美丽；因为美丽，所以向往；因为向往，所以相爱。

不是因为孤独才相爱，而是要让相爱的不感到孤独。

　　是爱，而不是时间，能够治愈所有的创伤。

　　人的一生，总会有大段的平淡，打断不尽如人意的遭遇，是爱，让我们想到美好，仍然有希望。

　　有爱，你就不会感到艰难是一种负担。

感动

为什么相爱的人却不能在一起？刚才看了网友的部落格才知道他的男朋友已经离开她，回天家去了。。看到她这样伪装自己的不开心，感觉好辛苦。。我可以感觉得到他们俩是真的相爱的。。可是为什么上帝就是要撤散他们，不让他们在一起？相爱却不能够在一起，是一件多么心痛的事情？看到他们这样，我觉得现在的我真的很幸福了。。虽然现在我和他之前出了一些问题，我想如果我们是真的爱对方的话，我们一定会一起解决的。。可是我能感觉得到现在的他很不想和我一起解决。。我曾经尝试一个人去解决所有的问题，可是还是不行。。只从那一次后我才真正的了解到，不是什么问题都能自己解决的。。现在的问题我想应该是我不大了解他，不懂他真正要的是什么东西吧。。尝试了很多办法去了解他的一切，可是到最到后还是什么东西都没有。。也尝试了很多方法去换回这段感情，可是最后的结果都还是一样。。感情是两个人的事。。一旦出现了问题，就必须一起的解决所有问题。。不是一个人去解决就可以的。。现在的我很想把所有的问题都解决掉，不想再为爱而烦恼，更不想再为爱而伤心了。。现在的我忘了什么是微笑，也忘了什么是痛。。因为你我放弃了我爱做的东西，我也学会了很多东西。。可是为什么你还是可以这样的对待我？是因为我付出的不够多吗？还是你真的变心了而你不敢告诉我？怕伤害到我，怕我承受不到？如果你是真的变心而怕伤害到我所以不让我知道，那我宁愿你把所有的东西都告诉我。。让我在伤多一次，让我痛恨你，让我大哭一场。。好吗？如果你真的不爱我了，请你告诉我。。不要再让我感觉到我还有那么一丝的希望，好吗？我真的快撑不住了。。在你面前我真的可以伪装到很开心，其实我心里是很伤心的。。你知道吗？我在想如果有一天真的让我发现到你是真的不爱我而不告诉我，那时候我真的很难想像我会这样。。所以请你快点让我知道你的答案。。可以吗？

Tired + Sick

( Michelle status : Sicking + Tired .. ) This what my feeling right now =( Sicking is because not enough sleep , tired is about family problem and love ! How came this two thing easy made me down .. Really don't know why i always also get this kind of problem .. Solve the problem by myself , but at last the problem still came back to find me .. Omg ~!!! Save me please .. Can you teach me what i wanna do now ? I really don't want to think about all my bad memories anymore .. Once i think the feeling really make me feel want to leave here .. I can't tahan the feeling at all .. Somebody teach me should i continue my relation again ? These few days he really make me going to be crazy sooner .. He treat me freaking cool now .. Even i whole day didn't find him , him also won't find me too .. Because what ..... I also don't know .. Always ask him why want treat me like that , then the answer he gave me is TIRED ~!! Wtf !! What the answer you gave me ? All is excuse and lie ! I don't want to quarrel with you , because i don't want our relation end like that .. But you acting like nothing at all .. What kind of boyfriend ? Girlfriend sick already ask you to bring me go see doctor , but you show your ugly face to me ? You think i want to get sick always ? I easy get sick because i too weak already .. I can sure i want be strong always .. But now i can't ....... You also can't blame on me =( The money i'll pay back you as soon as possible .. You don't need to worry much .. I won't cheat your money also .. I really hate you just now .. Driving so fast , like want go die already .. Haih ~ Don't know what your mind thinking right now .. I know what i say with you , you won't heard also .. So better i just shut up only .. You want how then how .. Whatever you like to do .. Might be this kind of life more suit than you .. I've no idea =(

每个人的生命中都存在着一道耀眼的彩虹 ，照亮你的希望 ，你的梦想 。。我曾以为 ，我的那道彩虹是詹志忠 。。

那时候的我 ，从来没有想过，人生自己会转弯 ，我费尽心思的在证明我有多么的爱你 。。后来我才真真的发觉到原来我真真爱的人不是你 。。我终于知道为什么当初你会选择离开我，因为我不懂如何的去关心我爱的人。。每天只会在你耳边扰扰叨叨的 ，简直就是像完你家妈妈的样子 。。 我想你家的妈妈都没像我这样 ，对吧 ? 现在的我真的很想面对面的对你说声谢谢你 。。谢你是因为和你在一起的时候我真的学会了很多东西 。。离开你的那段时间也同样的学了很多 。。要关心自己心爱的人方法不止是一个 ，还有很多方法可以去关心的 。。我承认你离开我的时候 ，当时我真的很恨你 。。 恨不得你有马上消失在我眼前 ，可是当时的我真的做不到 。。就只好一直在逃避你 ，就连吃午餐时间我都不敢出去吃 ，因为我怕会见到你 。。那时候的我逃避了两个月多我才敢出去吃午餐 。。当我决定不要在逃避你时候，你就出现在我也眼前了 。。当时的我心跳的超快 ，不懂我该做些什么 ，只好对你微笑而以 。。可是到最好我还是放下你了 。。

直到上上个月 ，让我认识了一位男生，大我十岁的男生 。。真的很不可想像吧 。。同时也让我闯进了他的世界里 。。 然后一不小心 ， 我们 就在一起了 。。 刚开始的时候，他对我真的很不错 。。可以说是谈了那么多次的恋爱 ，他是第二个对我最好的男朋友了 。。和他在一起快要两个月了 。。在这两个月里 ，又开心也有不开心的事情发生 。。可是最后我们还是解决了一些问题 。。到了今天 ，我不否认我还是那么的不信任他 。。会变成这样都是因为之前被伤的太重了 。。所以到了现在 ，感觉还是有那么一点的害怕 。。可是我答应他从现在起我会试着去相信他所说的一切 。。希望我真的可以做到吧 。。

这段旅程虽然艰难挫折 ，中间我都也沮丧过 ，放弃过 。。幸好心中的希望没有熄灭 ，幸好总有人帮我加油打气 。。终于我们都找到我真真要的是什么了 。。

人生是一盒巧克力 ，你永远不知道下一颗拿到的是什么 。。但只要坚持相信梦想的存在 ，就能找到属于自己独一无二的彩虹 。。

What I Want To Tell You And Let You Know =(

Dear , i really do miss you so much here .. Today is your day off , i thought i can meet up with you after you done your thing .. But when i called you just now evening you told me you already arrived home .. So i just said oh , okay .. Then asked you my crystal have left at your home or not .. I really don't know why recently you treat me so cool ? Is it i done wrong something make you not happy and make you want to like that treat me ? If i really got done wrong please tell me and let me know .. I really don't want we always like that .. I feel so tired and hurt .. Sometime i really will think that you outside have another girl so you became like that , but i know this is impossible .. I knew you won't treat me like that , right ? Just i always think too much already .. Last night i asked you come to find me , because i want to solve the problem with you .. But you seen like don't wan to solve with me and also don't want to face it .. Why you will became like that ? Before i know that Desmond Kho won't like that hide problem one .. Dear , please wake up .. I know you tired on work and you worrying about your grandfather .. But now what can do at your work side just add oil , don't make yourself feel too stress .. About your grandfather just take it easy only .. I know your heart was very painful to see your grandfather like that .. But what you can do ? You can't do anything at all .. You just can take care him as well only .. I don't know why your grandfather will became like that , but i really hope him will be okay soon .. Cheer up my dear ~!!! I know am very useless now , you got anything i also can't help you .. Always just will think too much and blame you , don't trust you .. Sorry =( I also don't want like that .. I will became like that now is because before i kept been hurt and been cheated .. Now i feel scare , i don't want get hurt and also don't want been cheat again ~!! I hate the feeling ~!!! Nowadays i very worrying about my grandfather too .. My grandfather his condition worsening now .. Now i everyday at home not just eat , sleep and play ... I have to take care my grandfather too .. Although i don't know you got how hard at work and also don't know you got how tired .. I hope you won't make yourself too stress at all .. And i also hope you will not be cold to me anymore .. Thanks ! IMY ALWAYS MY LOVERR ♥♥♥

女人不吵了、不鬧了、不叫了，就是真的不愛了

女人說要離開，是傷心了，是你讓他失望了.

女人明知道你們之間沒有未來，卻情願留在你身邊做個普通朋友，不是她太賤，只是她舍不得 .

女人故意在你面前提到別的男人，不是她花心，只是想要刺激一下你，讓你多在乎她一點 .

女人不主動打電話、發信息給你，不是不想你，是她不夠自信，你接到電話、短信時，是否也同樣的想念她 .

如果女人不愛你，是不會對你發脾氣的，不要報怨自己的女朋友脾氣太怪，女人只對她愛的人發脾氣.

女人不是不知道你還有別的女人，她選擇獨自傷心卻不揭穿你，是害怕揭穿後給了你一個離開她的借口.

女人總是在你面前假裝很開心，不是她沒心沒肺，成天傻樂，只是為了在你面前留下最美的樣子

男人 其實你不懂

1 她總是問:你在哪呢?你現在在幹嗎? (她很想念你,只是想跟你說說話,你不給她發信息,她很

矛盾,怕你在忙,但又忍不住想你.換了別人,愛幹嘛幹嘛,她不關心.所以請你一有時間就問候她一

下, 讓她放心,讓她知道你心裡有她,她不會煩你.她總是主動聯系你,她會覺得她賤.)

2 她說:我不開心了,我好煩. (不要怪她無理取鬧,更不能覺得她在煩你,她不是真的不開心,她只是想你了.只是想要你會來安慰她一下,哪怕是:乖,別鬧了,聽話!)

3 她說:不要感冒了./路上小心./自己多注意…… (不要嫌她煩.因為她知道你不傻,甚至是很聰明的.她只想讓你知道她心裡有你,她很想關心你)

4 她總說自己又長胖了或者長得不夠漂亮. (不要覺得她是在自卑或嫉妒別人,她只是怕自己在你眼中不夠完美.她已經在為你改變了.)

5 她總說她想要幫你,要你有什麼事一定要告訴她. (其實她知道她幫不了你什麼,她只想讓你知道你還有她,她永遠在會你身邊陪你,會一直的支持你,)

6 她看到你跟別的女生親近一些就會生氣,發小脾氣. (別說她小氣,不信任你,她其實是在吃醋,這表示她十分在乎你.即使心裡難受也會自己安慰自己.)

7 無論做什麼她總會征求你的意見. (不是她沒主見,太過依賴你,她只是尊重你,凡事以你為先.)

8 不管在哪裡她總是緊緊的和你站在一起. (她只是在告訴你她信任你.)

9 她愛憂傷,總是會多想. (不要覺得她是想太多,只是有時她會覺得缺乏安全感.)

10 她假裝生氣轉身離開. (其實,她不是真的想走,只是離開的時候希望被挽留.)

11 她會突然冷淡你,或是向你撒嬌. (別怪她孩子氣,她只是想讓你哄哄她.)

12 也許有一天她會跟你說分手. (其實,這個時候她已經喜歡你好久,只是不確定這份感情是不是對的.她只是要你的安全感,你的舍不得,你的不要走……）

男人 不要總是這麼吝舍 不花一點心思

在愛你 你明明也愛的人身上

Our Problem

Past this few days i keep suffer about our problem .. The problem is i can't trust what he had said with me , i can't trust myself too .. I don't know why will became like that .. I really feel tired and hurt .. Got a feeling wanna give up this relation .. But i was very willing to give up our relation , although it a short span of two months .. Because he is not willing to do to me .. We are happy that two months there are also unhappy .. I know some people will say just that short span of two months , what could not willing ? You all will say that because you all don't know how much i love him much .. If can i really hope we can return to the former kind of fun ..